I'm the worst kind of autistic, I can't even count

My name is Elisha. I'm autistic and queer. I have an autism blog _here_ that I should probably update more often. I also have myofascial pain syndrome/possible fibro, diabetes, ADHD, PTSD and chronic depression. Managing all these things takes up a lot of my time, so I will end up talking about them in my posts.

I live with my friend _metapianycist_ and our mutual partner _lunasspecto_ in Massachusetts. I am open to questions about what it's like being in an asexual, polyamorous relationship. I'm also really good friends with _ohfuckitsoprah_, _tacobuffet_, _omgspiffy_, and _hunglikearainbow_.

I try to limit gifs and post trigger warnings, but I'm running on limited spoons and might slip up. Please let me know if there's something I should be tagging that I'm not.

RIP Fezzy ~ 1981-2013

metapianycist:

Flaredown - Decode Your Chronic Illness

spookyjealous:

HOLY FUCK SPOONIES LOOK AT THIS
29 DAYS LEFT LETS FUND THIS!

Flaredown is a web site and mobile app that lets your track your chronic illness and figure out triggers so you can reduce your flares before they ever begin.

It’s a spoonie-centric approach to figuring out what works. You can track your illness, and bring your data into your doctor. You can talk with other spoonies who have your condition and see what works for them. You can talk about drugs and see if the side effects are worth the benefits of medication.

it’s banding together in spite of illnesses that seek to isolate us.

it’s bringing light to symptoms that are not understood by doctors.

I was mystified when they came out with a vaccine for chicken pox. Imagine my chagrin when they came out with a flu vaccine. It’s a virus, for heaven’s sake!

- Person on Facebook who apparently has no idea what a vaccine OR a virus is

I CAN’T, YOU GUYS. I JUST CAN’T.

  • teacher: are there any classes you are struggling with?
  • me: the bourgeois
  • teacher: what
  • me: what
  • karl marx: nice

the rehearsal dinner for my queer/trans/asexual/polyamorous wedding is on National Coming Out Day

*doesn’t use tumblr for like 6 months*

*comes back*

EVERY SINGLE PERSON I FOLLOW HAS CHANGED THEIR URL

genderoftheday:

genderoftheday:

genderoftheday:

Todays Genders of the day are: Toad ready to party, and Toad very excited (with legs showing)

I am officially replacing the male/female gender binary with this. You’re either a Toad ready to party or a Toad very excited (with legs showing).

friendly reminder that these are the only two valid genders and anyone else is a toadspecial or a toadtrender.

genderoftheday:

genderoftheday:

genderoftheday:

Todays Genders of the day are: Toad ready to party, and Toad very excited (with legs showing)

I am officially replacing the male/female gender binary with this. You’re either a Toad ready to party or a Toad very excited (with legs showing).

friendly reminder that these are the only two valid genders and anyone else is a toadspecial or a toadtrender.